Social anxiety disorder or social phobia is much more than shyness.
It is an extreme fear that won’t go away.
It can touch on your:
• Everyday goings-on
• Self-confidence
• Relationships
• Work or school life
Most of us will worry about social situations from time-to-time. However someone with social anxiety feels worried before, during and after events.
I have been dealing with people with anxiety issues for over a decade and I believe that the following 5 steps will be beneficial to anyone with social anxiety / social phobia issues. For more information see anxietyclinicdublin.com
Symptoms of social anxiety:
• Fear meeting strangers, starting discussions, talking on the phone, working or shopping
• Avoid or worry a lot about social activities – group conversations, mixed company, and parties
• Worry about doing something you think is embarrassing – blushing, sweating or appearing useless
• Find it tough to do things when others are watching
• Fear blame, avoid eye contact or have low self-esteem
• Often have symptoms such as feeling sick, sweating, trembling or heart palpitations
• Have panic attacks
How you can overcome social anxiety:
Social anxiety can be difficult to deal with but there are things you can try yourself.
1. Understand your anxiety
Try to appreciate more about your anxiety. Think about what’s on your mind and which social situations you find the most problematic and how you behave in these situations. This will help you get a clearer idea of the specific areas or triggers that are most difficult for you.
2. Beliefs and assumptions
Assess your beliefs and assumptions about a situation. Ask yourself could they be unrealistic ones e.g. when you feel a social situation went poorly. Ask yourself did the whole situation go badly or just a bit of it. Check the facts to support this or if you’re assuming the worst.
3. Move your attention
Try to focus your attention to people, things, sounds, sights around you. Be aware that your anxiety symptoms might not be as evident as you might think and fear.
4. Do activities you would normally avoid
This can be hard at first. Start with small goals and work towards more dreadedevents gradually. Create a list of the circumstances that cause you to experience anxiety. From the most frightening situation to one that causes only a slight anxiety.
5. Hypnotherapy
A trained anxiety therapist can help you manage your thoughts, feelings and behaviour processes. Thus make you aware of how past events can influence the present and impact on your life going forward. By utilising various anxiety interventions techniques the therapist will help you:
➢ Develop acknowledgement of your current anxiety state
➢ Build resilience to the triggers of your anxiety
➢ Construct new powerful ways to deal with your thoughts, feelings and behaviours
➢ Give you the power to live the life you deserve.
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